Be a ball of happiness ready to burst.!

 “Watch your thoughts for they become words.

Watch your words for they become actions.

Watch your actions for they become habits.

Watch your habits for they become your character.

And watch your character for it becomes your destiny.

What we think, we become.”

-         Margaret Thatcher

The above quote is so easy to practice and yet we compel ourselves to complicate our lives, thinking about all the downfalls and disappointments, so how about for a change we think happy and view our own destiny.

Here are some tips for optimism and bliss and how they’ll ease your livelihood.

Steps towards better living

     1.)          Don’t turn into a mean girl, learn to appreciate..!

  May it be an exquisite dish made by your mother or a long walk with someone you love, may it be your dad trying to teach you a small but important lesson of life or your grandmother surprising you with a toffee, you must never forget to appreciate their effort because they did it for you.

No amount of money or materialistic happiness can ever be compared to something so pure and beautiful because happiness attained in this form is ever lasting. Appreciation also blooms the front person up, so why keep shut?

2.)             Don’t be Grumpy the dwarf!

No one would want to be in a company which sucks out their energy and depresses them because in today’s world energy is a very necessary and essential commodity! Everyone has their own queue of problems troubling them and adding your own bunch would not help. Learn to think positively and have happy thoughts, because as you already know now you become what you think. Be the source of cheer and joy, that’ll not only make you feel good but might also make up the mood of everyone else around you.

3.)             Stop being so cynical.

A lot many things tend to happen in everyone’s life all around the world, but having a pessimistic view to all the situations is extremely wrong and practically unhealthy. One must learn to accept certain things and try thinking of positive outcomes instead of finding something or the other wrong in it. Finding goodness in everyone and everything is an art and who knows, the situation that felt so hugely saddening and the person who seemed like a jerk might actually turn out to be good and unexpectedly lovely.

4.)             Have no indifference..!

The opposite of love is not hate but indifference. Everyone has been through something that is still bothering them and making them feel secluded would be the last thing they would want to happen to themselves. Learn to love the people around you because nothing makes one feel happier than being loved and feeling wanted.

So wrapping it all up, learn to be a ball of happiness ready to burst, that will not only make your day but will also make the day of everyone around you!

  

5 step recipe towards self-confidence

People nowadays lack a lot of self-confidence which hampers their self-esteem. They have started to live in solitude which is followed by depression, but why? Only because they have a little less confidence in themselves. So here is my awesome sauce recipe for attaining self-confidence.

5 step recipe towards self-confidence!

Step 1:

  Believe in yourself.

  People are going to criticize you, call you names and say all kinds of things to bring you down. Some people do it for pleasure; sadists, some people do it just because they are voyeurs and some do it because they just envy you! But do you drown in pool of self-complacence? Of course not. You look past them, like they were some invisible and ignored wall; totally unseen. Because you believe in what you are and you believe in what you do and one day they are going to appreciate you for it. 

Step 2:

 Walk like you own the place!

No one is going to approach to you if you are going to live in a little doom of awkwardness and silence, walking timidly and nervously. When you walk, you walk like you own the place. You walk as if you are not afraid of anything because what is there to be afraid of? You have the panache, you have the smartness and you are not at all vapid. What’s the need to be scared? Life is a ramp and you and only you are the show stopper!

Step 3:

 Talk, speak up and give opinions:

Why be the audience in every conversation? Speaking up and giving your ideas and views because they are not only agreeable during a talk but also very appreciative is very assertive. Sometimes you may be challenged with opposing views but that is how one learns and the times when your opinions match to the majority of the group then that attains you confidence and the blissful feeling of being heard. 

Step 4:

 Keep an outspoken and outgoing company:

How are you going to be confident and outgoing if the people around you are shy butterflies? Keep a company that challenges you. Stay amongst people who have similar goals and aspirations. No one is asking you to ditch your buddies or your best friend, but never forget to exchange talks with people who inspire you and admire you because your company influences you in ways more than you can imagine.

                                                   

Step 5:

 Be calm and tranquil.

Over thinking, nervousness, panic and unnecessary adrenaline rush can leave you devastated! Staying calm and composed will not only help you restore the faith in yourself but will also allow you to talk to yourself. You might be thinking how could that be helpful, but talking to one self is the key to confidence because self-boost is the best thing that could attain you self-confidence. Take a deep breath and relax because there is nothing in the world to be scared of.