5 step recipe towards self-confidence

People nowadays lack a lot of self-confidence which hampers their self-esteem. They have started to live in solitude which is followed by depression, but why? Only because they have a little less confidence in themselves. So here is my awesome sauce recipe for attaining self-confidence.

5 step recipe towards self-confidence!

Step 1:

  Believe in yourself.

  People are going to criticize you, call you names and say all kinds of things to bring you down. Some people do it for pleasure; sadists, some people do it just because they are voyeurs and some do it because they just envy you! But do you drown in pool of self-complacence? Of course not. You look past them, like they were some invisible and ignored wall; totally unseen. Because you believe in what you are and you believe in what you do and one day they are going to appreciate you for it. 

Step 2:

 Walk like you own the place!

No one is going to approach to you if you are going to live in a little doom of awkwardness and silence, walking timidly and nervously. When you walk, you walk like you own the place. You walk as if you are not afraid of anything because what is there to be afraid of? You have the panache, you have the smartness and you are not at all vapid. What’s the need to be scared? Life is a ramp and you and only you are the show stopper!

Step 3:

 Talk, speak up and give opinions:

Why be the audience in every conversation? Speaking up and giving your ideas and views because they are not only agreeable during a talk but also very appreciative is very assertive. Sometimes you may be challenged with opposing views but that is how one learns and the times when your opinions match to the majority of the group then that attains you confidence and the blissful feeling of being heard. 

Step 4:

 Keep an outspoken and outgoing company:

How are you going to be confident and outgoing if the people around you are shy butterflies? Keep a company that challenges you. Stay amongst people who have similar goals and aspirations. No one is asking you to ditch your buddies or your best friend, but never forget to exchange talks with people who inspire you and admire you because your company influences you in ways more than you can imagine.

                                                   

Step 5:

 Be calm and tranquil.

Over thinking, nervousness, panic and unnecessary adrenaline rush can leave you devastated! Staying calm and composed will not only help you restore the faith in yourself but will also allow you to talk to yourself. You might be thinking how could that be helpful, but talking to one self is the key to confidence because self-boost is the best thing that could attain you self-confidence. Take a deep breath and relax because there is nothing in the world to be scared of.