Wednesday 23 July 2014

Deserve to be heard.

Spontaneity is slowly decreasing in today’s world, especially in the matter of expressing emotions. So here is some advice on how letting out how you feel will lead you towards betterment of yourself because you deserve to be heard. 

Why be ashamed?


Imagine a world full of enclosed people, people who are not insipid enough to share or even speak about their feelings. Seems quite isolating, right? But isn't everyone around you practicing it by hiding their thoughts and emotions as if they were a secret.
There is a list of shaming situations and happenings, but the reason to be mortified by people these days are their very own emotions and feelings. One must not be disgraced to express their feelings especially on the note of being mocked at. There might be some despicable people around the world who sustain on the anguish of others but that does not mean there are no exceptions. Speaking up ones feelings is a little challenging but it does not deserve to be buried within you, the very thought of it is suffocating. It might take one as a surprise but talking out your problems with someone close to you is the best self-help you can ever get. As a bonus, the feeling you get after is not only exhilarating but it will certainly set you up in a better mood.
You have this beautiful life and all your emotions have the right to be expressed. Of course the situation and consequences have to be kept in mind but what if the timing is perfect but still you are hiding that tingling happiness, that floating feeling which makes you feel ecstatic, that tear which you kept buried inside and that feeling of being hurt? Wouldn’t that be a saddening? Being who you are and speaking up what’s on your mind is not astounding but is instead very appreciating. Along the way one has many chances of getting a helping hand in their moment of need or a company to share the very same joy, but that will be viable only if one expressed their emotions.
So let us not be afraid or disgraced of being ourselves, let us be assertive and outspoken no matter what, because drowning in the pool of our own thoughts is an act of cowardice, and we are anything but a coward.


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